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Happy Valentines Day Everyone!!!

Our Sunday night was spent preparing Valentines for school today. I love that my 10 year old still finds joy in that. My 4 year olds first words this morning, were...."but Mommy, we have to get more heart lollipops!", we ran out last night. I do believe the child lost sleep over that. We had a fantastic weekend. We celebrated my baby sister's "40th" birthday. We had a great night out. Yesterday at our church we had a meeting about a wellness challenge we are engaging in. Kind of a "Pound for Pound" health & weight loss thing. The speakers were really knowledgeable and incredibly inspiring. I took away a really good tip. Of course I'll share it with you. Ok, he said, "You have 21 meals in a week. Make it your goal to do 18 of them right." (Meaning, mostly veg, avoiding bad fats, whole grains vs. processed, etc...) I like that. It is tangible, gives a little room for grace, and I feel like that is something I can start with. Losing 20 lbs would go a long way toward making me feel better. When my face gets pudgy it makes me feel VERY unattractive, somehow my gut can get fat and I don't sweat it, but my face, now that is another story. So I started with oatmeal this morning, check! One meal done right!! 17 more to go!

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