Have you ever taken one of the those Personality tests at work, where they identify your work styles? Or maybe a test that would help you to figure out what your spiritual gifts are? There are several on- line, and a multitude of books on the topic. I have. The results were about what I expected. A few surprises of course. The real rub for me comes in when I look at how I am using those gifts, or not using them as it may be. Some times, I find that even though a need (at school, at my church, in a small group) falls into my area of gifting, I don't step up. On the flip side, sometimes I step up, and step up, and step up, until I am over scheduled and stressed out. Sound familiar? I think the key is, to look at opportunities to volunteer, in your community, or in a ministry, and really hone in on the ones that are congruent with your gifts. Look at where you could have the most impact. If you are doing work that is congruent with your gifting, it shouldn't feel stressful, it should feel good I think. If you are taking on things outside of your gifting, then you'll feel stretched, stressed, and overwhelmed. On top of that, by taking on that role, you are denying someone who does have a gifting in that area, the opportunity to step up and contribute. As the school year wraps up, I am sure, like me, you are faced with planning for Fall already. I would encourage you to take a spiritual gifts test. Really think and pray about things before you step up and volunteer. But do step up. Use your gifts. I believe that spiritual gifts are a use it or lose it proposition. We have them for a purpose, and they are given with an expectation that we will use them for good. In the words of a friend of mine, who is entrenched in projects right now, "Even if someone would volunteer to set up the coffee and donuts for me, that would be HUGE!!". Sounds like a little thing, but each little thing adds up to accomplish a big thing.
Summer is a wonderful time if you have the luxury to stay home with your kids and enjoy the slower pace. Lazy days, pool time, reading, outings, and spending time at the beach is good for the soul. If you are a parent who keeps your kids home with you vs. sending them to camp--- there is also a dark side to the lazy days of Summer. I know many Moms who say loud and proud, "I can't wait till Summer!! Oh yeah! Only 3 more weeks!!, Oh no! It's over already! We need a few more weeks!!" Are you one of those? Do you say it with a straight face? Ok, maybe you are sincere. Bully for you, you win the Mom medal. Those are NOT my people. I love my kids, don't get me wrong, I really do. I love reading time, and lego time, and swimming, and picnics at the beach-- as much as any other Mom. Let's get real for a minute though. We can't play down the other side of life with kids. The constant fighting The whining The meltdowns (yes one of our guys st...
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